All of us are doing the same thing… searching for our other half.  I do not mean in the typical romantic sense.  I mean that missing part of ourselves that drives the need to scour the internet, bars/clubs and classifieds for someone who can fill our deviant void.


Society says anything considered not normal is deviant.  But as with most things in life, there are gray areas.  No black and white clarity except where it pertains to who is Superior.  No one has the right to decide for you how you choose to live your life.

So stop letting them.

That’s right I’m talking directly to you.  And you know why.

When was the last time you serve a Dom?  Why are you not serving now?  Was it something that was so irreconcilable that you would not work your ass off to protect it?

How long ago was that?  Are you serving anyone regularly right now?

If yes, then good for you.  Carry on.

If not, then you have some serious soul searching and reevaluation in your future.

The same goes for Doms.

This is a relationship.  You get what you put into it.

If that is nothing, then you got exactly what you wanted.

Learn from your mistakes.

Mistakes are meant to be learned from… or repeated over and over until one of two things happens…

You finally get the message.

Or you die searching…