My Lifestyle

 The way I live this Lifestyle is a construct of my own making.  My rules.  My philosophy.  My expectations.  My wants.  My needs.  My vision.  For those who wish to be apart of this construct, use this page as a guide.


As a submissive, my Lifestyle becomes your Lifestyle

Changing The Narrative | Precious Illusions
September 4, 2017
Changing The Narrative :  Precious Illusions When I first heard this song by Alanis Morrisette, back in 2002, I found myself transfixed by the lyrics.…

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Leaving The Lifestyle
August 6, 2017
When I started exploring the BDSM world, I expected to deal with the good and the bad. I expected to face alot of disappointment and…

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Life Lessons | Chocolate Cake
October 8, 2016
Chocolate Cake Little Timmy got a chocolate cake made for him by his mom for his birthday.  When she wasn’t looking, he smeared the chocolate…

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The Consequence of NOT Speaking Out
September 10, 2016
There are always consequences for not acknowledging or speaking out against social injustice…   First they came for the communists, and I didn’t speak out because I…

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The Power of Belief
June 1, 2016
The Power of Belief Belief is a very powerful thing. It can mold you. Inspire you. And eventually define you. Even believing in a “God”…

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Searching...
January 1, 2016
All of us are doing the same thing… searching for our other half.  I do not mean in the typical romantic sense.  I mean that…

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Interview with Black Sovereign (Part 2)
May 1, 2015
During the week of January 10th, 2014, I celebrated my 40th birthday with my subs and some friends in Los Angeles, CA. At a winery…

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Interview with Black Sovereign (Part 1)
April 15, 2015
In April 2007, I was nominated as member of the month on a Black BDSM centric site called Dark Connections.  I strongly believe that the…

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Nigga Moments
March 15, 2015
I rarely use the word “nigga” anymore to show love towards my fellow brothas… however.  Sometimes, my brothas lose sight of all common sense and…

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Slavery is Freedom
March 1, 2015
Not to be confused with the term “Freedom is slavery”, I shared my own original quote in 2014 concerning why slavery is freedom.  It is a…

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What does Black Mans Revenge mean?
December 14, 2014
  A white sub asked me today if “Black Mans Revenge” means getting what we deserve by making whites crave BBC. That’s one very small…

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In Life, There Are No Coincidences
December 3, 2014
Over the course of my life, I’ve noticed certain irregularities with the concept of time, space and the notion that any and all events that…

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New Directions
April 23, 2014
Since turning 40, this past January, I have reflected on the past 10 years. I remember where I was at age 30 in 2004, contemplating…

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What I Look For In A Submissive
January 11, 2014
What I Look For In A Submissive   In order to learn, you must listen… All of my life, I have known I was different.…

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Rules of Engagement
January 10, 2014
My Rules of Engagement   There is a right way and WRONG way of approaching a Dominant, like myself. Many subs come off as aggressive…

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